Select friends who love God, love you, and who are not afraid to tell you exactly what they think. Ask them to speak into the process early and often. Surround yourself with godly counsel.
Believers in Jesus do not need to play games. Life is short. You don’t have time to mess around with people’s emotions. Say what you mean. Mean what you say. Be clear about the process.
A third principle for dating is that it should be between believers in Christ. The Bible is clear those who trust in Jesus are to date (and marry) those who trust in Jesus. You are to love those who do not believe, but you are not to extend a romantic relationship with them. As a believer in Jesus, dating is part of being in commugnity with other believers—a covenant relationship. God does not recognize dating as a “status.” You are either brother and sister in Christ, or you are husband and wife. There is no intermediate sphere. So don’t get this confused.
In the same way, the Bible draws a hard boundary between what is permissible sexually. In marriage, much is permissible. In singleness, none is permissible. And in dating, still none is permissible. True love does not request access to your body while simultaneously avoiding any responsibility to care for you emotionally and financially. So, until the two of you are married before God, you are still two. You are separate.
However, there are just too many women in your life:
- A Korean girl who undewent plastic surgery and thinks she is already pretty. A presbyterian woman who fornicate (what else can a woman do secretly) and who worship K-Pop, BTS, hip-hop, computer security hacking and robotics.
2. A Cambodian office girl who was perfected by camera filters and make-up or cosmetics.
3. One who looked professional on a white gown but is actually unprofessional with those cleavage-revealing sando.
4. A Filipina girl who just graduated last October and decided to wear a black bra then flaunt it in Social Media (too worldly). How does someone feel when they have their chest wide open in public??
5. A Vietnamese who seemed like a porn star with short thin clothes and a short pants revealing too much skin.
6. A latina Christian woman who is obsessed with cosmetics.
7. Some Chinese who are also obsessed with make-up and plastic surgery and love to flaunt their barbie doll face in Social Media.
8. A Filipina graduate who looked like she does nothing in life but post herself publicly on Facebook.
9. Thailanders who loves cosmetics and loves flirting with Korean men.
10. And a lot more foreign women..
Yes, your sideline/business might be about cosmetics but if you are a genuine Christian, you will avoid circumstances which engage yourself in wordly stuff. They will definitely corrupt your heart, mind and soul and keep you away from having a healthy relationship with Jesus Christ. Please DO NOT be mistaken to consider yourself a Christian if you are a close friend to all these exquisitely wordly women. Adultery is not parallel to Christianity. You will not find your wife in them, look for her at the well like how Jacob found her wife Rebekka. GOD BLESS on your quest for a partner in life or you will stay flirting/adultery all your life.
Remember you represent the entire Presbyterian Christian community if you will do the analysis.
GOD does not look on what you do but on how you do what you do.
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