Munja Wa Shong..

Hi everyone! I am happy to share how you can get the “munja wa shong” (which means “you have a message” in the Korean language) SMS alert tone. With the great assistance of the most powerful online search engine – GOOGLE, I was able to configure my phone with this cute alert tone. It was popularized by the Korean drama series “Secret Garden (2010)”. I tried doing it again on my phone and captured some screen shots for a little convenience but preferred following the tutorial vid below:

Tutorial: How To Customize Your iPhone MMS/SMS Ringtone

 Credits go to the uploader: TheFreshPrince1313

*No copyright infringement intended.

Here's his tutorial on how to customize your iPhone's SMS/MMS sound (ringer/tone). To do this you will need the following: 1. Jailbroken iPhone (First Generation, 3G, or 3Gs or iPhone 4). The way to know if it is jailbroken is if you see Cydia icon in it.

2. DiskAid (recommended) or an SSH program (Free - Mac and PC) http://www.digidna.net/products/diskaid 3. Switch Audio Converter (Free - Mac and PC) http://www.youtube.com/redirect?q=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nch.com.au%2Fswitch%2Fplus.html&session_token=w3jTlHEbwM1sGbWHPciF3reEofV8MTMxMzM1MzQwN0AxMzEzMjY3MDA3 4. iTunes or other audio program that lets you trim songs

Gave it a shot and I am now using "munja wa shong" SMS alert tone in my phone. You can try it too. Customize your SMS alert tones with your favorite songs. This works indeed. Happy day~ :)))))) <3

 Thank you so much..

 

Angel of Happiness :)

 

Saturday work duty is over and she can get a little time doing notes of the heart for him.

He just doesn’t know how her heart leaped when a simple message came that he thinks she might be an angel of happiness. Such recognition gives so much peace and bliss because that’s one purposes she always wanted to take into action – to make people happy with her simple ways. Bother not to reciprocate.. Let her do it with all unsurpassed enthusiasm. She will understand anything. Now, she asked the angels of God to guide as he does things which will equipped his heart with the purest of intentions, huge determination and divine hope..

She misses him everyday po~ ;[
Until they meet again.. in “KkT”, haha ;P <3 ^^;
He is always in our prayers.

It's God's love.. 
     

This Is How We Started

We met here more than a year ago and we were just simple acquaintances. We have a regular chit chats and sweet talks often with an accompanying humor and the likes. I will never forget how I come across and the lines made when I added him as a “friend” on this social networking site created for foreign language learners. I even remembered how this person happily sent his maybe favorite mp3 songs thru MSN file-sharing feature. I have added all those songs in my youtube and ipod playlist because they remind me of many things about him. He was the one who introduced C.N Blue band, a South Korean singing group who perform mostly ballad to a little rock songs. It made me appreciate the band because of him. I even created a separate youtube playlist dedicated for C.N. Blue’s songs. 

This is what we were, little by little we started to get a little serious about getting to know each other. On the other hand, keeping someone’s trust and getting theirs is not easy. Likewise, it is quite hard to get their loyalty, whilst you ponder a lot why they acted that way. Anyways, all I owe to this language website for through it I met and knew him. 

Simple friendship kindled to infatuation and the heart weighed whether it is possible to get noticed. I think I will describe him an aloof, too hard to read and with no feelings at all. Maybe, that’s what my eyes and ears painted in my heart whenever I reach out for him. He backed out getting closer as some circumstances kept him away from me. Sometime of the same month last year we parted ways because of my childishness. I acted too pathetic while he absorbed it willingly maybe because he got pampered so much by the excitement other people gave him. He was gone and no communication at all.

I was forgotten. I was out of the picture and left with my own fantasies in a world of hope. 

Three months later on the same year, we bumped to each other again and everything flashed back to how we used to be. That was also the time I realized I was not only carrying an infatuation but a love, which got nurtured by so much yearning. I knew I loved him. I knew then he has a space in my heart. I let him in again and he accepted me wholly. But I didn’t understand something lying beyond this reunion. I thanked how he accepted me and made his friendship somehow visibly warm. I made constant communication because I don’t believe in waiting for another to respond the same way you did. It doesn’t matter what I looked like back then but just with so much hope, love and care. I know God has some special mission for me for this man; a purpose which until now I don’t really know. 

It always makes my heart smile whenever I hear from him. Everytime “munja washong” message alert tone calls me, I will have an unexplainable smile and happiness. I love seeing his Hanguel name on my phonelist. I love seeing the Hangeul-written name of him pop up when a new SMS message arrives. I really love peeking at our old SMS conversations over and over again, even sneaking to read his message anywhere in the office at any given time. I do this when I feel tired of work, when I feel hopelessly incapable and later realized that I unwittingly made him my inspiration. ^__^ I know he somehow felt the same. My heart believes that love understands love with so much respect. Even if I am not sure who his heart seizes to embrace passionately, I’ll keep the hope that one day all these will be laid visible. 

I have a lot of happy, inspiring and lovely things to say about what I have right now. All I know now is I am falling in love to one special man and will keep a big space in my heart for him. I sincerely dedicate this song. I watched this South Korean Drama few years ago before I met my man. This drama series is one of my all-time favorites and I am still watching it over again. 

Keep my words but always believe that they may wither. Only God’ words won’t vanish.

Thank you so much for being my pillar of support by simply being happy because of me. Like I said, I have never left you nor wiped your memories out of my mind. 

Always remember my favorite phrase: “I am happy because you’re happy!!”.. God bless you po. Maraming Salamat po. 

P.S. haha.. I maybe your angel of happiness.. and I want to spread my wings also for you. Thanks for keeping the friendship and keeping up on me..

I want to be your best female friend,.. ヅ ♥ 

사랑해요. imissyou~ :[

How To Install Love?

Don’t ever give up on anything especially about Love. You know why? Love is God and He magnificently bestowed this special gift for us to share. People are not to stagnate and must not have a lonely life. Here is a simple conversation, which I’m sure is an inspiration to people who are going through or have gone through a lot in life. Please read on.. 

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TECH SUPPORT: yes what can i do for you? 

CUSTOMER: well, after much consideration i've decided to install LOVE. can you guide me through the process? 

TECH SUPPORT: yes i can help you. are you ready to proceed? 

CUSTOMER: i'm not very technical but i think i'm ready. what will i do first? 

TECH SUPPORT: first is you have to locate your HEART. have you located your heart? 

CUSTOMER: yes but there are several programs running now. is it ok to install LOVE while they are running? 

TECH SUPPORT: what programs are running? 

CUSTOMER: i have PAST HURT, LOW SELF ESTEEM, GRUDGE AND RESENTMENT running now. 

TECH SUPPORT: no problem. LOVE will gradually erase PAST HURT from your current operating system. it may remain in your permanent memory but it will no longer disrupt other program. LOVE will eventually override LOW SELF ESTEEM with a module of its own called HIGH SELF ESTEEM.. however, you have to completely turn off the GRUDGE and RESENTMENT. those programs prevent LOVE from being properly installed. can you turn those off? 

CUSTOMER: i don't know how, can you tell me? 

TECH SUPPORT: with pleasure. go to your start menu and invoke forgiveness. do this as many times until grudge and resentment have been completely erased. 

CUSTOMER: okay done! LOVE is installing itself. is that normal? 

TECH SUPPORT: yes, but remember that you have only the base program. you have to begin connecting to other hearts in order to get the upgrades. 

CUSTOMER: oops i have an error message already. it says "Error Program not run on external components." what will i do.? 

TECH SUPPORT: don't worry it means that the LOVE program is set up to run on internal HEARTS but has not yet been run on your HEART. In non-technical terms, it simply means you have to LOVE yourself first before you can LOVE others. you should pull down SELF-ACCEPTANCE; then click on the following files: 

FORGIVE-SELF, REALIZE YOUR WORTH, and ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR LIMITATIONS. 

CUSTOMER: ok. done. 

TECH SUPPORT: now copy them in your MY HEART DIRECTORY. the system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching faulty programming. also, you need to delete VERBOSE SELF CRITICISM from all directories and empty your RECYCLE BIN to make sure it is completely gone. and never comes back. 

CUSTOMER: got it! "MY HEART" is filling up with new files. SMILE is playing in my monitor, and PEACE AND CONTENTMENT are copying themselves all over MY HEART. IS THAT NORMAL? 

TECH SUPPORT: sometimes, for some it takes a while but eventually everything gets it at the proper time. so LOVE is installed and running. but before we hang up, i just want to say that LOVE is a FREEWARE. be sure to give it and its various modules to everyone you meet. they will in turn share it with others and return some cool modules back to you.. 

CUSTOMER: thank you God! :) 

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..My life revolves around things that I hope somehow pleases God. Destiny doesn't depend on how you strive hard to trail towards a noble one it but in the manner of how a part of life is shared. I believe it is also by what have been imparted to others through words or actions. It is also how you put smiles on their lips and how you change their faces to being happy. We have a purpose and definitely are not with of little significance. We are a unique creation who should grow with benevolence. Share love and keep it in even if you will encounter hurts along the way because at the end of the day.. it is still LOVE you will certainly gain. :) 

..To a special someone my hearts longs, hang on.. iloveyou~

Unhide

She thinks she found him (the friend she’s praying for) but the situation is quite uncertain that she still needs to find for clues. She has to weigh if he deserves having her. She doesn’t know if he will accept her and her past. She can’t let the feelings show, because of reasons, which she can’t recognize whether rational. Every time she’s near, some conditions just back out and doubt. She is asking if this is real and what feelings he has within him.

She might end up being in a miserable condition and a bit thinking she has to go. She needs to swim against this stream of indistinctness. But they say that you can never get what you want in love if you are too scared to get hurt.

Now, she is listening to a song that makes up the whole story. Maybe she can no longer continue. Perhaps the situation is getting worst and it can’t elevate because something is blocking their individuality to get nurtured. He seemed insensitive Maybe a numb who doesn’t even care but as you slowly get to be familiar with how everything is controlled, he’s more than just a guy. However, she is quite bothered of the fact knowing that she is just a nobody to him.

Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so love the people who treat you right forget about the ones who don’t and believe that everything happens for a reason. But must keep in mind that you will never see the answers by ceasing whatever has already started. Keep the patience. It pays off.

.. should we stay this way so we could be closer? hihi..

.. and I hope someone special gets the message. She longs for a real heart.. a true friend.. a warm compassion

.. oh and suddenly, engineered everything in an epistle like this.

imissyou~<3 :[ 

let God's love flow into your heart :)

until we meet again..

thank you

*Grammar pointer:

..it’s sometimes a struggle to use a “but” conjunction to start any composition. I think the sentence should contradict its precedent to support using this word and to justify why it is placed at the beginning.

Do you use iPhone SMS?

SMS which is an abbreviation of Shot Messaging System has been and will probably always be in our everyday communication. SMS I believe is the most convenient and fastest way of transmitting and receiving information. This has been the all original and was the start of this entire high-technology message sending/receiving being enjoyed by many nowadays. It was all before just one hit away, an extending our emotions thru a 160-character SMS on the create SMS screen. I remember in our country, it cost a penny or a half back then to send one SMS. Mobile phones were analog ones, which are also big and heavy. 

I have lived my past years without using the savviest and such most high-end communication device. The appeal of an instant SMS messaging with accompanying unlimited text-call promos proposed by various mobile networks attracted me to be pleased of having nothing but just the simplest of all phones. I did not believe living a life with the latest gadgets and spending my hard-earned money will definitely not go for such those. I had owned several phones that helped me a lot in communicating with my colleagues, friends, schoolmates, acquaintances and love ones. This also helped me meet some special people who definitely have touched my life or made me cry.

All these were a history I blissfully shared and have made an inspiration until an expected event happened that made me use this one of the most admired phones. An AT&T-locked iPhone was sold to me by a friend, and I did try using. I told myself that it’s time for me to make a change since I believe somehow I can afford to obtain one now. There was actually no long term plan of using old phones but I have loved my Samsung BlackJack II before I come to a decision to stop using Nokia phones, which was also sold of the same person.

I am referring to an iPhone, a gadget which helps people's communication in many ways. This is a one-package user-friendly messaging gadget that anyone would certainly love. It may not be the most recent one that is out in the world market but definitely has the functionality I want a phone to posses. I can do many things, from SMS transmit/receive to Internet browsing. It can provide the most convenient access to anything since you can still use 3G internet connection if Wi-Fi spot is out of reach. One most loved feature of this handy-phone is the capability to acquire different apps (short for applications/software), which help most in terms of instant communications. Different instant messaging apps can be installed here such as MSN, Yahoo Messenger, AIM, AOL, Skype, Viber, certain Korean instant messaging apps and now it can even technically accommodate to provide an ease of doing Facebook and Twitter micro-blogging anywhere. I can also send/receive business and personal emails, which is a real a convenience. I can really say iPhone is the best communication device and that iOS Operating System is doing its most excellent service ever.

Zia Feat. 4MEN - Crying, Calling... (울고, 불고...)

Now, It is Defined..

 

..here i am again.. hm.. i can say others can describe LOVE but can't define it... hm.. i think they are absolutely right.. i myself just couldn't define it but all i know is this is a one-precious God-given gift to humanity that everyone has overwhelmingly felt and expressed.

..it is described in different ways but one thing for sure.. it is really magnificent!

Please excuse me if this post will strike someone but it does not ought to give such verdict intentionally.

God Bless you us all. 

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(this is a repost)

WHAT IS AN INFATUATION?

An infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by an attraction to someone. The dictionary calls it "being blindly in love." In other words, you are so carried away by this that you don't know what you are doing or where you are going. The one involved in a romantic infatuation usually cannot think of anything or anyone else other that the person he or she is "in love with." An infatuation is an exciting experience--an emotional high--but it never lasts long because it is NOT true love. One of the signs of an infatuation is that you tend to idolize the person you think you are in love with. Everything they say or do seems just perfect to you. You don't see any flaws. Other people can see plenty of "danger signals," but you can't see them because you are "blindly in love." our romantic feelings have taken over and you are not using ordinary good sense. 

When you are involved in a romantic infatuation. you tend to be disorganized. You are not yourself. You are irresponsible and you tend to neglect your duties. Sometimes young people will daydream and "laze" around, not doing their duties. Someone will ask, "What is the matter with you, Caroline? You are not yourself." Caroline will smile sweetly and say, "Oh, I'm in love." No, she isn't! She is infatuated. If she were in love and her love was the real thing, she would be concerned about her duties, preparing and planning for her future. Most infatuations don't last long. What does last is the bitter fruit of wrongdoing committed during the infatuation. Remember, when you are infatuated, you don't use common sense. Your romantic feelings are in control. When this happens, you can do some things that you will regret the rest of your life.


WHAT IS LUST?
Lust is an intense desire to satisfy one's sexual appetite. Lust often goes under the name of "love," but lust and love are two entirely different things.

LUST is SELFISH - the emphasis is on getting something. Lust demands immediate satisfaction. Lust says, "I want it for my own pleasure, I want it regardless of the consequences, and I want it now."

LOVE IS UNSELFISH - the emphasis is on giving. Love wants what is best for the other person. Love is willing to wait. Real love will wait for the right time and the right circumstances.

The Bible gives examples of both lust and love. Ammon, one of David's sons, thought that he was madly in love with Tamar, his half-sister He desired her so much that he was literally sick. One of his evil friends suggested a plan whereby he could get Tamar alone. Amnon carried out this plan and forced Tamar to have sex with him. What happened next? He no longer care for her. In fact, he hated her. Ammon's love was not love at all. It was just lust. On the other hand, the Bible tells of the love Jacob had for Rachel. Jacob had to work for Rachel's father seven long years in order to obtain Rachel as his wife. Jacob was willing to work and wait for Rachel because his love was the real thing. The Bible says that sever years "seemed to him but a few days" because of the love he had for her.

WHAT IS SEXUAL ATTRACTION? Sexual attraction is physical attraction between a fellow and a girl. We are built with a sex drive which causes us to be interested in the opposite sex. There is nothing wrong or sinful about this. God made us this way. Sin comes when we attempt to satisfy our sexual drive in a wrong way. To be sexually attracted to someone does NOT mean that you are in love with that person. A fellow sees a girl with a beautiful figure and he says, "Wow!" A girl sees handsome football player and her heart skips a beat or two. Is that love? No, it's simply physical attraction between a fellow and a girl. Movies, television, magazines, and books constantly bombard us with this idea: "Find someone who turns you on...if you have a good sex life, that's all that matters."

The campus beauty queen marries the former captain of the football team and everybody sighs and says. "What a handsome couple!" But in a short while, their marriage is broken. Why? Because there was no real love between them. They were just sexually attracted to each other and had little in common besides this. They soon became bored with each other. Remember, sexual attraction not love. There is a vital place in marriage for sexual attraction, but a marriage cannot be built on sexual attraction alone. There are couples by the thousands who could not or did not resist sexual involvement before they were married, but now they cannot stand to touch each other.


WHAT IS REAL LOVE?
Real love has many qualities. It does contain the magical element of physical attraction. But it is a lot more than this. Love has roots in friendship. In true love, you love the total person. You enjoy being with that person sharing things with them. 

Real love is unselfish. It sacrifices for the one it loves. And it carries with it the vital quality of commitment It doesn't give up or quit when problems come along. Real love will bring out the best in you. You want the one you love to be proud of you. If you are just infatuated with someone, you may "laze" around and daydream, but if your love is real, you apply yourself to your work, you make plans, and you prepare for the future. Real love is not just a wonderful feeling that strikes you suddenly. It takes time to grow and develop. Some of the most popular songs in the world of music give the wrong impression that falling in love with someone at first sight is real love. You don't "fall" into real love---you grow into it. You have to know a person before you can love that person with real love. It is impossible to truly know someone at first sight, and it is likewise impossible to have real love for someone at first sight. You may be attracted to someone at first sight you may even be "turned on" by someone at first sight But you cannot genuinely love a person whom you do not really know.

PRECIOUS LOVE
Satan does not want you to know and experience true love. That is why he promotes all kinds of false love. He wants you to get involved in sex outside of marriage. He wants to generally mess up your life so that you think life is not worth living. God, on the other hand, loves you supremely and desires only what is best for you. He wants you to have precious love--not cheap sex. If it is His will for you to be married, He has just the right person for you. He wants you to have a mate who loves you unselfishly and is committed to you for life. And He likewise wants you to be committed to that person for life. He wants your home to be a little bit of Heaven on earth.

-love, dating and marriage

A Woman's Worth

.. just read this small scenario, a quite unfathomable conversation between a man and a lady.. hmmm.. got quite curious about it..as the conversation goes, learned that people may really tend to put standards only to show "their worth". -me

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In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question: "What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking, "Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, he said "Yes." She began to expound.. 

"As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man..or woman for that matter. 

I am in the position to ask, "What can you bring to the table?" The man looked at her.

Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life." He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain. 

She said "I am looking for someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. "I am looking for someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked..believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. "I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. "I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive.. he just has to be worthy. 

"God made woman to be a help mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself." When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, "You are asking a lot."She replied, "I'm worth a lot."

I Kissed WAITING Goodbye!

..seemed contradictory to the title of one of my fave books - I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Josh Harris, catchy one here which I would like to share.. Thanks for appreciating.. =) 

God Bless you all.. 

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[The Writer]

YES! You read the title correctly. I’ve decided that I’m through with waiting. That I would stop this period of nothingness and start pursuing. No more and I say it again no more. Waiting causes so much trouble for me, so much heartache and fear. It’s time I remove this things from me instead I will start to pursue. Yes I will start to pursue.

YES I WILL START PURSUING! 

I will pursue to improve my character that the one created for me would not have to suffer my ill attitude, bad temper, sharp tongue, and fits of range.

YES I WILL START PURSUING! 

I will pursue my dreams and ambitions that the one created for me might share in all my accomplishment and she would carry my name with a smile on her face.

YES I WILL START PURSUING! 

I will pursue deeper friendships with those around me that the one created for me would be surrounded by amazing people who cares for me and would eventually care for her as well.

YES I WILL START PURSUING! 

I will pursue accountability that all my actions, words and even my thoughts would be kept in check. That the one created for me would not have to carry all my burden alone.

YES I WILL START PURSUING! 

I will pursue to develop my self that the one created for me would not only be attracted for my character and heart but for everything about me.

YES I WILL START PURSUING! 

I will pursue purity that I would be able to give the one created for me the greatest gift I could give her. (I hope she is doing the same for me)

YES I WILL START PURSUING! 

I will pursue righteousness that I may be right with God and with men. That the one created for me would not have to suffer because of my wrong actions.

YES I WILL START PURSUING! 

I will pursue Holiness, that I would be set apart. Holy before God. That the one created for me would see that I am different. That I am out of this world.

YES I WILL START PURSUING! 

I will stop waiting, stop doing nothing! For the one created for me deserves more than just to be waited upon.

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..She deserves the best. I will do with all my might to be the best for her. 

I’m through with waiting I have kissed it goodbye.. 

hm.. guess who's the writer? a guy i think.. :) 

Interview With Me

In a dream, I had an interview with God.

"Come in," God said to me, "So, you would like to interview Me?"

"If you have the time," I said.

God smiled and said: "My time is called eternity and is enough to do everything; what questions do you have in mind to ask me?"

"None that are new to you. What's the one thing that surprises you most about mankind?"

God answered: "That they get bored of being children, are in a rush to grow up, and then long to be children again.

That they lose their health to make money and then lose their money to restore their health.

That by thinking anxiously about the future, they forget the present, such that they live neither for the present nor the future.

That they live as if they will never die, and they die as if they had never lived..."

God's hands took mine and we were silent. After a long period, I said, "May I ask you another question?" "As a Parent, what would you ask your children to do?"

God replied with a smile: "To learn that they cannot make anyone love them. what is important is who they love. To learn that it takes years to build trust, and a few seconds to destroy it..

To learn that what is most valuable is not what they have in their lives, but who they have in their lives..

To learn that it is not good to compare themselves to others. There will be others better or worse than they are..

To learn that a rich person is not one who has the most, but is one who needs the least..

To learn that they should control their attitudes, otherwise their attitudes will control them..

To learn that it only takes a few seconds to open profound wounds in persons we love, and that it takes many years to heal them..

To learn to forgive by practicing forgiveness..

To learn that there are persons that love them dearly, but simply do not know how to show their feelings..

To learn that money can buy everything but happiness..

To learn that while at times they may be entitled to be upset, that does not give them the right to upset those around them..

To learn that great dreams do not require great wings, but a landing gear to achieve..

To learn that true friends are scarce, he/she who has found one has found a true treasure..

To learn that it is not always enough that they be forgiven by others, but that they forgive themselves..

To learn that they are masters of what they keep to themselves and slaves of what they say..

To learn that they shall reap what they plant; if they plant gossip they will harvest intrigues, if they plant love they will harvest happiness..

To learn that true happiness is not to achieve their goals but to learn who they are through striving towards them..

To learn that happiness is a decision. They decide to be happy with what they are and have, or die from envy and jealousy of what they lack..

To learn that two people can look at the same thing and see something totally different..

To learn that those who are honest with themselves without considering the consequences go far in life..

To learn that even though they may think they have nothing to give, when a friend cries with them, they find the strength to appease the pain..

To learn that by trying to hold on to loved ones, they very quickly push them away; and by letting go of those they love, they will be side by side forever..

To learn that even though the word "love" has many different meanings, it loses value when it is overstated..

To learn that they can never do something extraordinary for Me to love them; I simply do..

To learn that the shortest distance they could be from Me is the distance of a prayer..

God's love

Starting at 0

..thought it will end into something so nice and happy~

I was wrong..

..thought, I can already have what I have been dreaming of..

It was off beam again.. T_T

.. thought I can have one good person who will take care of my existence as a close friend..

It was another false notion.. ᇂ_ᇂ

why?? failed? why I failed? what have I done? >.<

someone never know and will never understand what's behind my smiles..

only then when I finally find someone who will be so concerned of me, who will put full effort to know how am I doing, who will show how much care/love is reserved for me.. I can truly say - HE's THE ONE~~ >.

.. I will not seek for more than what's enough,

enough time to talk to me,

enough time to show how worried his face will become if I am not at sight,

enough time to at least say "hello" or "hi" in any ways there could possibly be,

enough time to take extra hours to chatter and tell, hey friend.. this is such a nice thing you must know and blah blah (a short chitchat)

enough time to send a note on MSN, Skype, Facebook, YM, yahoo mail and hotmail just to let me know that he exists.

.. these memorable yet romantic things are so remarkable to experience..

so indeed an incredible feeling.. so lovely and gentle.

oh God~ I can't wait to see and meet him one day..

i am a hopeless romantic but my heart doesn't beat as such,

my heart will be pure until I gradually sense the feeling of being loved and taken care of.

.. still waiting, waiting.. waiting..^__^

i am just here, YOU..if you are just waiting.. ^^ (not known to me yet)

be safe until we finally meet.. - UNKNOWN ONE

my life tells me affirmatively that.. I meet extremely good people each day of my life.

just that none of us fancy each other likewise but I am confident that I will meet that person soon

..and treat him like a STAR.. 

"Time heals all wounds"

with friendship;;

it doesn`t matter how long you`ve known

each other, or how many fights you got into,

what matters is who said "i`ll be here for you"

& actually proved it..

Thank you Lord Jesus Christ.

..own definition of a NICE/GOOD guy,, bow!

I visited a certain forum and there was a question that goes like this:

"Ladies I have a question for you. I was listening to a radio station this morning and I heard a girl say that they don't like dating or going out with a nice guys. They said being with a bad boy type is more fun. This is not the first time I've heard this. It reminded me of a saying: "Good guys always come in last." As a Christian woman, what is your opinion of this? Is being a nice guy overrated or unwanted at this time and age?"

Oki, lemme give my comments about this.. For me, the definition of a "good/nice guy"..

--is someone who knows God soooo much..

--is someone who knows how to control his emotions (all types)..

--is someone who knows how to take good care of the girl he likes/loves.

--is someone who will not hurt his girl (dear)..

--is someone who has one word and keep his promise..

--is someone who knows how to weigh things and how to react on each situation.

--is someone who has no vices.. (don't drink and don't smoke) it is a big NO-NO for me if a guy has these vices.. becuz he might die before me.. hahaha.. just kiddin but true.. ;(

--is someone who will love me and who will accept for who I am..

--is someone who loves his parents and family sooo much..

--is someone who is responsible and knows how to manage his dreams/goals.. has a focus to reach his visions in life..

--is someone who knows that there is always rights and wrongs and he knows how to handle these two different situations..

--is someone who likes to be a kid if ever I want to be kid sometimes..

--is someone who understand that I needed an ear, mind and heart to listen..

--is someone who is always there even if he's soooo beesy doing his own activities in life..

--is someone who never forgets to remind you that he's there always..

--is someone who will try his best to make you happy in his own cute ways..

--is someone who is NOT A LIAR and NOT GAY and NOT PLAYBOY!!.. (doesn't have soooooo many chatmates, textmates and messagemates..hmmm,,)

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In summary, SOMEONE WHO IS NOT PERFECT!! oki???

To answer the initial question, I think it is still nice to date (friendly date/group date) and become close to NICE/GOOD guys now cuz, I think good girls deserve ONE GOOD/NICE guy!! hahahaha.. period! toinks!! ^^;;